Sunday, April 8, 2007

marriages ...........made in heaven........ love is blind............... finding a better part of u...blah blah..... blah.................













marriages are made in heaven...say people...but is it really true... maybe after years of observation starting from wat i have been seeing at home gives me a different interpretation .that marriages are not made in heaven when there is love and loads of understanding and a strong support for ur life u tend to feel like in heaven and its not made in heaven...




i would like to ask this question to hundreds of people in this world,this question evoked on my brief meet with a cousin of mine whom i had not seen for a long time. she is my best friend .she is married to a man of her parents choice,one who is best in the outer shell.and maybe really a gem of a person.but what is that does not make sense between them.when it comes to understanding priorities in life both of them are sails apart. the last time i saw her she had very cold eyes and a dry halo effect surrounding her which shows that " man am so damn screwed with this life" .then she told me she feels good when she sees her sons face.a kind of peace,and thats the most happiest thing which has happened to her..!!!and there was another friend of mine who got hurt when her husband physically abused her on the very night of the day she got married to him...she was hurt but her husband has created the scar deep in her heart than on her body!!and a guy friend of mine who got married to a gal who told him that she has undergone three abortions on the next day of her marriage and eventually eloped away with her former boyfriend jus 6 months after marriage ...the world is really weird right.. if not for u... i surely feel so.........!its true that there are different kind of people in this world..but we have only one life so is it jus for taking chances..... cause it hurts u, the person to whom u get married to ,and ultimately if u have kids their lives too..! let me ask a question to all of u in this world........well ,is marriage all about this..u marry and try take chances... then y do we really have to marry......people mock relationships and love makin jokes and cartoons out of it........ but deep within the jokes they really do make sense i feel!!! check out these..........




3 comments:

clash said...

Tough.. questions... But marriages for sure is not made in heaven.. But for sure not in hell too...

arun said...

aLl your writings reflect the way you see the world. try to be pratical and think from all the angle

vinita said...

well.... its not good to hate roses just cos some got hurt by its thorns....

everything in this world has its positives and negatives.. y dont u try to look at its positive sides for a moment?